I am a very active disambiguator. I take no prisoners when disambiguating! This means that I will not refrain from disambiguating links on user pages, user talk pages, talk pages, or archives. If you do not like the fact that I did so on your user page or talk page, feel free to change it, preferably not back to the disambiguation page again, but to what you think fits better. Same for anyone else who questions my disambiguation skills in articles: If you think it could link to something better, than please by all means do so, but please by all means do not link it back to the disambiguation page, or I'll end up changing it again. Any conflicts in this matter may be discussed on my talk page.
This user thinks that users should be able to cross out any flag they want. And any user who has a problem with that is showing a lack of respect for their fellow user.